This is for the genderfluid people hiding like I do.

spawnofinterest:

This is for the genderfluid people who don’t experience severe dysphoria and find it easier to tell people they’re cis.

This is for the genderfluid people who are long-term, fluctuating every few months or years, and don’t see themselves as valid because of it.

This is for the genderfluid people who experience such gut-wrenching dysphoria that they crave surgery or hormones but don’t want to get either because they think they’ll regret it tomorrow.

This is for the genderfluid people who have to convince themselves that they’re valid when they wake up in the morning.

This is for the genderfluid people who, when their sex “matches” their gender, are almost convinced that they were making it all up, and have to forcefully remember the dysphoria to remind themselves that they are valid and real.

This is for the genderfluid people who don’t use genderfluid as a label because it’s too hard to explain.

This is for the genderfluid people who ignore that aspect of themselves because they don’t think they’re a “good representation” of genderfluidity.

This is for the genderfluid people who avoid telling their partners that they’re genderfluid.

This is for you.

This is for me.

We are valid.